How to help someone feel listened to (and loved)

Did you know that feeling "loved" improves your overall well-being?

You and I need to feel loved, and when we feel loved, we're healthier, more positive, and even more optimistic.

Researchers at  Penn State have affirmed through two studies that: "… people who experienced higher "felt love" — brief experiences of love and connection in everyday life — also had significantly higher levels of psychological well-being, which includes feelings of purpose and optimism, compared to those who had lower felt love scores."

I cannot underestimate the importance of helping those around you to feel loved.

And one way to show love to those around you is to listen to them.  

Author David Augsburger says, "Being heard is so close to being loved that for the average person, they are almost indistinguishable." 

By taking the time to listen well, you are helping someone feel loved, and improving their overall well-being.  

Here's one framework I use to listen well to others…

Bill Cox

Bill is a credentialed and experienced Executive Coach. He has spent the last 20 years coaching thousands of leaders. Bill has a passion for helping leaders get to the next level and live intentional lives of influence. As a speaker, coach, and author, Bill places exceptional value on empowering leaders to thrive professionally and personally. Bill and his wife, Moey, reside in Pennsylvania, where they experience exceeding pleasure watching their son, Joel, grow into a modern-day knight.