Why you should choose value over success 🎯

Why you should choose value over success 🎯

How would you define success?


Does success come after gaining a particular title, level of education, entrance into a certain tax bracket, or having a certain number of staff people underneath you?


Or perhaps does success rest on a certain number of followers, a certified social media profile, or a viral number of views, likes, or plays?

4 Questions to Help You Conquer Fear

4 Questions to Help You Conquer Fear

Do you struggle with fear?


When decisions need to be made -- or when an opportunity comes, does fear become a primary influence?


As a person who has struggled with fear for most of my life, I can tell you that fear can be a crippler of dreams, a limiter of potential, and a robber of opportunities.

It was all going so well until I got punched in the face… (Ego Is the Enemy: Chapter 3 discussion)

It was all going so well until I got punched in the face… (Ego Is the Enemy: Chapter 3 discussion)

Trying new things keeps you sharp. They challenge you. They put you in new environments -- and new environments are conducive to new growth.


Instead of shooting a video to discuss the next chapter in Ryan Holiday’s “Ego Is The Enemy” this week, I tried something new.


Earlier today, on the Bill Cox Coaching Facebook page, my colleague, Paul Macosko, and I went live to discuss this chapter together.

The truth about too much talking

The truth about too much talking

Lao Tsu once said, "Those who know do not speak. Those who speak do not know."

Too many words can get you into trouble -- and it's often an abundance of words that build and sustain egos.

Today's video is on chapter two of Ryan Holiday's Ego Is The Enemy. The chapter is called "Talk Talk Talk," and it centers around the idea that your walk needs to talk louder than your talk talks.

For everything you aspire to, ego is the enemy.

For everything you aspire to, ego is the enemy.

Author Ryan Holiday says, “For everything you aspire to, ego is the enemy.”

Think about that statement for a second. How powerful -- and true it is.

  • Have you ever stopped to consider the link between your ego and aspirations?

  • How does your ego impact your aspirations?

  • Can you have both an ego and aspirations that are healthy?

How often do you procrastinate?

How often do you procrastinate?

Are you a go-getter or a procrastinator?


From fear to stress, there are many reasons people procrastinate. While putting off unimportant jobs can be harmless, chronic procrastination can negatively impact your quality of life, relationships, and career outlook.


From creating deadlines for our to-do list tasks to learning how to be more accountable, there are many options for correcting the behaviors associated with procrastination.

Choosing THIS will improve every area of your life

Choosing THIS will improve every area of your life

Every day, you and I make choices that impact our lives. However, certain choices have disproportionate effects on life.


Research has consistently shown that if you choose to improve THIS:

  • You will become more successful at work.

  • You will grow in resilience.

  • Your health will improve, and you will have a decreased risk of dying from serious diseases.

The one thing GREAT leaders don't forget!

The one thing GREAT leaders don't forget!

In his Boundaries for Leaders book, Dr. Henry Cloud makes this statement, “As a leadership coach, one of the questions I always ask myself is, 'Does this leader lead in a way that is compatible with humans?'”

Every time I read this question, I laugh at how simple, yet profound it is.

In the whirlwind leadership, it’s easy for leaders to forget that they are leading fellow people -- human beings with hopes and dreams, griefs and struggles.

What are you trading your life for? 📆

What are you trading your life for? 📆

How passionate are you about what you do for a living? Are you struggling with your current role or position within your organization?

Statistically speaking, you are not alone.

Many people are unhappy with their current employment. A staggering statistic from Monster.com indicates that as many as 95% of workers are now considering changing their jobs.

Two words that keep you from reaching your potential

Two words that keep you from reaching your potential

Why do so many people fall short of reaching their full potential?

What makes the stretch and struggle to achieve the level of success that you desire to reach so difficult?

I've coached hundreds of people and there are several reasons, chief among them centers around the way you see yourself.

How to avoid burnout when working virtually

How to avoid burnout when working virtually

The world sure has changed in the past two years -- and through it all, you've undoubtedly learned a lot about yourself.

You've probably also learned a lot about the people that you've worked alongside of as well! Maybe those are even the people who live inside of your house??

Statistically speaking, many of us are working from home (or have worked remotely in the not too distant past).

The one thing that 99% of “failures” and “successful” people have in common...

The one thing that 99% of “failures” and “successful” people have in common...

Have you had a good week? Does life feel extra challenging lately?


You are not alone -- especially if you are trying to work hard, juggle your career and home life, invest in your personal growth, serve those around you, and live a life that makes a positive impact within your sphere of influence.


Doing the right thing (and making positive change) is hard work. And hard work is just that -- it's HARD.


What happens when life gets hard?

Are anxiety and fear holding you back?

Are anxiety and fear holding you back?

Are anxiety and fear holding you back from reaching your true potential? They may be — more than you think!

Fear is something I've struggled with my whole life. It has robbed me of much joy and many opportunities. But fear doesn't have to get the last word -- even if it's in our wiring.

Did you know that the average person has between 12,000 and 60,000 thoughts per day — and of those thoughts, 80% are negative — and 95% of those are repetitive?

Why is that?

You can choose your friends but you can’t choose your family...and why that matters

You can choose your friends but you can’t choose your family...and why that matters

Talk to me about your family.


What was life like for you as a kid? What were your parents like? What kind of environment did they create for your family? How did communication work? How were decisions made? What did family life center around?


The answers to these questions may have had more of an impact on you than you think!